Who does not know the proverb “Away is good, but at home is better”? We invariably say this postulate, returning from the most incredible travels. Why is home so important? Why is stability better than diversity, or statics better than dynamics? Is it possible, finally, to argue with popular wisdom?
Expression “Being a guest is good, but being at home is better” means that with all the unusualness of other people’s houses, cities and countries, a person will always strive for his native threshold – to a place where everything is familiar and familiar to him. The proverb can be understood both literally when it comes to returning from friendly gatherings to your own apartment, and figuratively – when the metaphor extends to foreign countries and homeland.
Today, love for the Motherland has ceased to be a vital postulate. Many are deliberately looking for a place where they can live more comfortably, finding no point in staying in a village or a small town. However, our ancestors thought differently. The vast majority of the proverbs of the thematic group “Motherland-Foreign Land” emphasize the sacredness of the native land, its maternal strength, its priority over other regions.
At the same time, there is no unnecessary pride in the proverb, she humbly admits that “visiting is good”, paying tribute to all other orders and cultures. This wisdom in the perception of one’s own and another’s would be good to learn from many modern “patriots”.
Origin of expression
A person is connected with the place of his birth by blood ties, the memory of childhood and adolescence, the first images of the world – in the form in which they were reflected in his consciousness.
Growing up, we compare different cities, countries, feeling that the rhythm of some suits us, and the noise of others brings sadness to our hearts. And yet, most people cherish the memories of home, trying at least sometimes to visit the place of their birth, the place of power, the source of their destiny. Home can be called a place where you are loved and expected. As a rule, we meet most of all love in early childhood, when parents, grandparents, and then the first school teachers surround us with attention and care. That is why we are drawn to our small homeland, to our father’s house.
The proverb that home is better than visiting did not arise overnight: this truth has been tested by hundreds of thousands of people over the centuries. Of course, there are people with broken lives who do not consider their home to be a reliable marina. There are those who happily left him and escaped into a new, free life. But this does not negate the fact that, ideally, the situation should have been completely different. Folk sayings, as we know, reflect an ideal, desired picture of the world, a certain moral and aesthetic canon to which one must strive.
In support of this idea, we will give an example of other proverbs that speak with love about home:
- The village is more beautiful than Moscow;
- On someone else’s side I’m glad my funnel;
- And the bones cry in their homeland;
- Every man has his own land.
The house and the road are two vectors of a happy life. It’s great when a person has both a cozy nest and strong wings to fly over the whole earth.